Many times, we look to others and compare ourselves to them, but we should not do this. Set your own standards, your own criteria, and then judge yourself according to these criteria, but with total honesty. You will be able to see your own qualities and flaws. You must then accept your flaws open heartedly and move forward. You are the captain of your own soul, and the lives of people who brighten the lives of others remain illuminated forever. Sometimes we give our best eff